Big Girls Need Love Too

This poems sums up how i feel about big women. Now there is nothing wrong with loving a big woman, because love is blind and you can't help who you love. However I do have a problem with the laziness of women today and they expect you to go along with it as if you are accepting who they really are and you are not. I have dated or had a crush on a few big women in my time i must admit. But I didn't see them for their size I saw them for the person they were inside truly. They were nice and cooperative and confident in who they were. Personally I prefer a woman, physically, that is of mid build with an hour glass shape body. I just like something i can hold on to and wrap my arms around(lol). Now I do have a problem with men that pump these women head up like if you big your beautiful. Not every big woman is beautiful and you will find alot that are more trouble and shallow than a chick that is skinny. Now me, I don't look at a big woman as a ugly woman, If she is big, I just think about a few factors that relate to me like: Is she healthy? Will she cook healthy things? If with my support will she want to work out? Will she get bigger as time go by? Will my children be born healthy and without complication? What physical health teachings will she teach my children? Can I have this woman on my arm and not worry about what others think? I don't know if that sounds shallow but those question comes to mind. As a guy my woman is a representation of who I am and the significance of a big woman does have a negative stigma on a man at times. I remember seeing this status that said "A man that likes a big girl is a man that thinks for himself" or something like that. Now a man that has factored everything in and loves his woman no matter what is a man that has courage and thinks for himself. But for the rest they date BBW's because they are supposedly easy or they have low standards. And to the women that says that Big women are apart of our culture, well, that is true but there just one thing. THEM CHICKS ARE RICH! In some African Cultures Big women are a social status of wealth and even royalty. But this is America. How many BBW's you know that are rich besides Mo'Nique, Oprah, and Queen Latifah? As far as broke men liking big women, this is true, but there are exceptions to the rule. But name one rich man that married a BBW before he or she made it rich?

Now personally, the most beautiful BBW I would marry and i don't care what no one thinks is Jill Scott. That woman has a beautiful spirit and is a rare find. But anyway, back to the matter at hand. There is something wrong when +70% of Black women are overweight or obese. It's even worse when they can predict that by 2034 100% will be overweight or obese. This is a problem that must be addressed. Fellas quit simpin not every big woman has a pretty face and beautiful spirit, they can be sassy and alot worse then skinny women. But who you decide to mess with is your own business. Ladies be who you really are inside, but take care yourselves healthy. It's all up to you. You ladies are the question and the answer to this.