Sunday, June 21, 2009
Happy Father's Day: My Thoughts on it
First Off, Happy Father's Day to all the Fathers out there. I know this is your day and you do not get the justice you deserve, not even from the President of the United States. I know that you can not get a break on you own day and not here about deadbeat dad's and men that ain't shyt by women. Even though you never here of nothing of the many irresponsible and trifling mother's on there on their own day. I know that roughly, only 3% of fathers are granted custody of there children in court. I know that inspite of the fact that you want to be a father you are pushed away by the mother of your child, yet you are hounded to be a better father. I know that it is not easy for you and I am truly sorry. I would like to salute you and show my respect to all those men who are good dad's and love their children. I'm not going to say to you that you need to step up and do more because we could say the same for mothers and that's all you hear from women and simp ass men anyway. I will say that you are irreplaceable, even thought women say that you are and they can do your job in raising children. I know that some of you are not the best dad's in the world, but atleast you try. Personally I didn't have the best dad in the world, and i can say figuratively speaking i have been raised by a single mother all my life. However, if it wasn't for that man that made me sit at the table and learn math and made me read the books i wanted, I wouldn't have been the success I am today. Sometimes you can't focus on what a person didn't do but what they did do. My dad played with me, gave me my diverse taste in music, he taught me to clean, tried to teach me how to cook, and how to manage money and much more. To my father's father thanks for giving me my love for old school hats i'll never forget that. To my mother's father thanks for being so loving at your old age and just being loving towards me. To my great grandfather thank you for teaching me that it's ok to be like you and to be a calm and kind man but still a strong man. Thanks for showing me that two people can stay together till death due us part. Thank you for giving me pride in our family and pride in where we come from. I hope to one day be like you and have a big family like you did. Now the men i mention (except great granddad lol)are far from being world class dad's but they did do some good things inspite of the bad and it is to that I give them credit. I hope to join the ranks of being a father and i hope i do the best i can towards my children. To all the Father's keep doing what you're doing. A Father's Love is sometimes stronger than a Mother's even though the media will never admit to this. Remember that you are the true giver of Life and you are the Sun. Know that you are of great worth and of great value. God Created you first and gave you the tools to be his greatest masterpieces on this earth. To all the so call bad father's always remember that you can't change somethings, but as long you're alive you can still make up for things and be better men and better father's. The game is not over for you to be a true father to your kids, you may not get everything right, but just do the best you can. Happy Father's Day Everyone, Peace be Upon you all.
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