Thursday, August 19, 2010
Vikki Veil
We have songs like pornstar, i'm in love wit a striipper, etc. Our community is in love with slut behavior. But what if that behavior becomes the face of majority of your female population. We hear women say that that is all men care about, but why do you adhere to the base function of male barbaric sexual behavior. Is it because you benefit from that? Hmmmmmm..... Anyway back on topic. I remember watching Paul Mooney and he said black men all have a police story. I could instantly identify with that instantly. The same is with this song. I have never dated a porn star but I have dated women with the same behavior. You ask those questions when you care for someone and you wonder why they do the things they do. But it teaches you a lot, especially to never deal with that kind of behavior. My friend told me her granddad said, "A dick has no conscious.", because of that you NEVER LET YOUR DICK PICK WHO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH OR WHO YOU LOVE IN GENERAL.
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Much More Than Just A Friend by Lally
This is from a magnificent person on how they felt about me. She is dear and special. Te quiero Lally
Much More Than Just A Friend
by Lally
I go online and see you on and automatically my smile gets bright
I dont know what it is about you that makes me fall without a fight.
You are my friend and maybe more
But these feelings that i keep inside are hidden in my core.
I wish i would just blurt it out and say just how i feel.
But sometimes when i open up, I shut back down by fear.
Its funny how i care for you but try to keep you away.
It seems like thats the only way i know that you will stay.
I fear that once i let you in our relationship will fade.
Im just afraid of re-living some mistakes ive made.
You mean much more than just a friend.
Like i told you before ill ride for you till the end.
Much More Than Just A Friend
by Lally
I go online and see you on and automatically my smile gets bright
I dont know what it is about you that makes me fall without a fight.
You are my friend and maybe more
But these feelings that i keep inside are hidden in my core.
I wish i would just blurt it out and say just how i feel.
But sometimes when i open up, I shut back down by fear.
Its funny how i care for you but try to keep you away.
It seems like thats the only way i know that you will stay.
I fear that once i let you in our relationship will fade.
Im just afraid of re-living some mistakes ive made.
You mean much more than just a friend.
Like i told you before ill ride for you till the end.
We both been hurt, we both have cried.
We both had our share of lonely sighs
I wish i knew where this could lead
Because maybe then we would both be freed
Emotions would show what i have been hiding
and maybe you will show me what ive had trouble finding
But these are just lil thoughts of wat i really feel
Wish i could let go of him and see whats really real
He is a good man to me indeed
But maybe you Scholar is what i need
Its hard to know if this is true.
Because i just cant take the chance to losing you.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Smarten Up!
You ever watch gangster movies? In some of them you would see the young mobster messing up and then the older and wiser mobster would slap him and tell him to smarten up? Well this is why this piece is meant for all the simps, thugs, manginas, or any male who is lost.
Why do you protect these women? I don't get it at all. I understand why "the powers that be" protect and shelter them. They get in return money, votes, blind following, servitude, generational indoctrination etc. However, what are you all getting? Are you getting a good, strong, and independent black woman? Are you getting a future wife? Are you getting a good mother for your future children? Or are you getting some bull shit? See i couldn't understand why so called good women would protect the bad ones. You know they have that blind loyalty to "the sisterhood", but then I realized that that was who they were. Me personally, I would protect any of you poor excuses for males. The reason why is because you do not represent my character and integrity as a man and you make me look bad. Because of that, I don't hang around males like you or invite you into my inner circle of fraternal male brotherhood. Do you see my point? If a "good woman" will protect a bad one, then is she not a bad one? So what are you guys getting? No man of character would want a woman like that, yet you all do.
Look at what they say about you. You're gay, in jail, dogs, weak, players etc. You have a very big group of women who are hostile toward you yet you have relationships with them and they have relationships with you. Talk about a pair of contradictions. I'm gonna need you all to realize that these women are not your friend, ally, help meet, lover etc. They will lock you up, kill you, leave you, lie to you, rape your ass in court, and bring on massive levels of stress on you. I remember I was dating this girl and she was a ho, unbeknown to me at the time, but i remember a homeboy of mines told me to my face that that girl didn't love me. He did it so funny that he rapped it. So I'm telling you these women DON'T LOVE YOU. They will do great harm against you. Then their "sisters" will come behind them and say "not all women are like that". Hell they will say that because of one woman I think all women are bad. Do you know how feminized you have to be to feel and think that way? .Yet in today's society the feminazation of men is becoming more and more a reality. Thus the he-motional actions and sworn fealty of simps and manginas.
And if a thug, bad boy, rebel etc. does not think he is a pussy beggar just as well as the simps and manginas, then he is sadly mistaken. He is a mockery, because his whole persona is built on attracting and getting pussy as well as the false sense that he is being a non-conformist which is nothing but a lie. His confidence is built on the pussy women has given him and a huge ego. This is where "swag" comes into play. Swag is a false sense of confidence given by the ego. I have women tell me that I have "swag" and I correct them and tell that I have no "swag" for I am much more and swag is just an ego tool for the mediocre and I am more than that. These guys are generally sorry sacks of mediocrity. They saw an image that attracted women and were socially accepted in certain circles and they imitated as if that's who they are. None of these guys have the courage to be themselves so they choose to be like everyone else. And women encourage and are turned on by the mediocre so they in turn are the mediocre as well. It is the false confidence of swag that women find attractive, thinking that the guy will take care of them and they don't. They fuck them and leave, but they love that pretty boy swag. Bitch shit! True confidence isn't basic. It is deep inside and it is carried by good morals, honor, integrity, and character.
Reputation is everything. These women may not care about their reputation, but you should. It tells people who you are and what kind of person you are. Your negligence of this is fool hardy. Pay attention and be mindful. You need a lot more than your balls and your word, which probably don't mean shit, because u don't protect your reputation. Establish the man you want to be and not what you see on t.v., what you think women want you to be, what women say they want, or what is cool. Stop kow towing to these women like they are the last empress. Stand up and Smarten Up. Always remember this: Women give life but pussy KILLS. Not only does it kills, it's and indiscriminate killer. Ask yourself are you a man or a low ass bitch ass animal and what do you want a Woman or PUSSY. The choice is yours. You decide.
Why do you protect these women? I don't get it at all. I understand why "the powers that be" protect and shelter them. They get in return money, votes, blind following, servitude, generational indoctrination etc. However, what are you all getting? Are you getting a good, strong, and independent black woman? Are you getting a future wife? Are you getting a good mother for your future children? Or are you getting some bull shit? See i couldn't understand why so called good women would protect the bad ones. You know they have that blind loyalty to "the sisterhood", but then I realized that that was who they were. Me personally, I would protect any of you poor excuses for males. The reason why is because you do not represent my character and integrity as a man and you make me look bad. Because of that, I don't hang around males like you or invite you into my inner circle of fraternal male brotherhood. Do you see my point? If a "good woman" will protect a bad one, then is she not a bad one? So what are you guys getting? No man of character would want a woman like that, yet you all do.
Look at what they say about you. You're gay, in jail, dogs, weak, players etc. You have a very big group of women who are hostile toward you yet you have relationships with them and they have relationships with you. Talk about a pair of contradictions. I'm gonna need you all to realize that these women are not your friend, ally, help meet, lover etc. They will lock you up, kill you, leave you, lie to you, rape your ass in court, and bring on massive levels of stress on you. I remember I was dating this girl and she was a ho, unbeknown to me at the time, but i remember a homeboy of mines told me to my face that that girl didn't love me. He did it so funny that he rapped it. So I'm telling you these women DON'T LOVE YOU. They will do great harm against you. Then their "sisters" will come behind them and say "not all women are like that". Hell they will say that because of one woman I think all women are bad. Do you know how feminized you have to be to feel and think that way? .Yet in today's society the feminazation of men is becoming more and more a reality. Thus the he-motional actions and sworn fealty of simps and manginas.
And if a thug, bad boy, rebel etc. does not think he is a pussy beggar just as well as the simps and manginas, then he is sadly mistaken. He is a mockery, because his whole persona is built on attracting and getting pussy as well as the false sense that he is being a non-conformist which is nothing but a lie. His confidence is built on the pussy women has given him and a huge ego. This is where "swag" comes into play. Swag is a false sense of confidence given by the ego. I have women tell me that I have "swag" and I correct them and tell that I have no "swag" for I am much more and swag is just an ego tool for the mediocre and I am more than that. These guys are generally sorry sacks of mediocrity. They saw an image that attracted women and were socially accepted in certain circles and they imitated as if that's who they are. None of these guys have the courage to be themselves so they choose to be like everyone else. And women encourage and are turned on by the mediocre so they in turn are the mediocre as well. It is the false confidence of swag that women find attractive, thinking that the guy will take care of them and they don't. They fuck them and leave, but they love that pretty boy swag. Bitch shit! True confidence isn't basic. It is deep inside and it is carried by good morals, honor, integrity, and character.
Reputation is everything. These women may not care about their reputation, but you should. It tells people who you are and what kind of person you are. Your negligence of this is fool hardy. Pay attention and be mindful. You need a lot more than your balls and your word, which probably don't mean shit, because u don't protect your reputation. Establish the man you want to be and not what you see on t.v., what you think women want you to be, what women say they want, or what is cool. Stop kow towing to these women like they are the last empress. Stand up and Smarten Up. Always remember this: Women give life but pussy KILLS. Not only does it kills, it's and indiscriminate killer. Ask yourself are you a man or a low ass bitch ass animal and what do you want a Woman or PUSSY. The choice is yours. You decide.
Sunday, August 1, 2010
10 Things I’ll Teach My Sons About Women
I plan on writing a few things real soon. But this was a good find and I just had to post it. Enjoy
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/07/31/10-things-i%E2%80%99ll-teach-my-sons-about-women/
10 Things I’ll Teach My Sons About Women
[This guest post was written by Micah Sparacio, originally posted on his eponymous blog]
Sometimes the truth is not comfortable.
So if you’re not comfortable with a reality that betrays our ideals, don’t read on.
The most important thing I’ve learned about women is that you’ve got to be indifferent to their attempts at harnessing you in an emotional net and controlling you. Sounds harsh, but you’re the man. You need to be in charge of yourself. You should not be controlled. You need to lead. You need to make decisions. Forget all the nonsense about equality. Women don’t want that, even if they say that they do (duplicity of intentions is not uncommon in relationships).
What’s important is to understand how women operate at a biological and emotional level. Ultimately, women are not looking for nice guys. They are looking for strong, confident, powerful men. Men who make them feel secure… comfortable. This makes sense from an evolutionary perspective as women needed men they could rely on to protect both them and their children.
So don’t fall victim to the stories about intentions… the narratives about what they need… the pleas for a nice man. It’s tough. But if you forget everything else, remember this one rule: don’t let a woman ever gain control over you at an emotional level. Don’t let her push you around with guilt or pleas for sympathy. Stand up to her when she’s wrong. There’s nothing wrong with providing comfort or offering a compliment… in fact, you should master these skills … but don’t let her manipulate you into giving them. At that point she’s controlling you.
The story you’ll hear preached from the rafters of our society is that women are just looking for a few nice [read: controllable] men. Reject this narrative at all costs.
Instead, focus on being a man. Confident and capable. And don’t be afraid to embrace the higher virtues like humility (just don’t confuse it with cowardice) and strength (but reject the self-obsessed pride that destroys so many celebrities). Women don’t necessarily need these things, but remember, your goal should be to become a great man, not a poser who’s trying to pick up women.
You must become the man you want to become without regard to women… it is only then that you will find that the task of gaining and keeping the attraction of a woman is as simple as breathing. And by doing this you can beat the jerks and the thugs (the one’s who get all the girls) at their own game.
The man who spends his life catering to every whim and fancy and emotional confusion that the average women goes through is quite simply not going to be able to attract or hold onto that woman for very long. He will be used and abused and have his heart broken. There’s no reason to go through this.
So, with that introduction, here are the ten things that I hope my boys come to understand about relating to women.
1. Be confident
Women are attracted to confidence. The irony is that your confidence should not be for the sake of women. It should be natural. Make yourself the best man you can be. Let your confidence derive from who you are. Aim to be the best man you can be simply because that’s who you want to be.
Biologically (and thus subconsciously) women gravitate towards big, strong men or men with confident personalities (sometimes coming through in humor, but humor isn’t necessary). Both of these are ancient signals that the man will help her offspring survive (remember, women are motivated and act at a subconscious level, even if they don’t agree at a conscious level).
2. Smile at rejection
Historically, women have been the rejectors and male the pursuers. This is just how the world works. Like it or not, you’ve got to be thick skinned and realize that rejection is just part of the deal for men.
The good news is that unlike the past, there are billions of women out there. So just move on. Don’t let rejection rock your confidence. Learn, improve, and move on.
You can treat rejection the same way you treat the training for a sport. A necessary evil.
3. Maintain other interests
Never allow a woman to consume all of your thoughts or all of your time. Harder said then done. But there are a number of reasons that you should maintain other interests (hobbies, friends, etc.)
The most important reason is that by having a life outside of your relationship or your obsession, you won’t fall hard when the relationship ends. It helps you stay grounded. It helps you move on when the time comes.
Remember: you never want to be consumed by a woman, because then she’s in control. And she really doesn’t want that. Trust me.
4. Enjoy the company of guys
Make sure to have a core group of guy friends that you spend time with on a regular basis. Have fun. Be active. Be a guy. Tell dirty jokes.
And never abandon your guy friends for a woman. If the woman tries to dominate your time, it’s time to move on. It may be hard, but the minute the woman starts trying to control you like she’s your mother, the relationship is stale and it’s time to get the hell out of dodge.
5. Understand hypergamy
At a biological (subconscious) level women are always trying to upgrade. Men have a hard time understanding this because for most men, at a subconscious level, all that matters is that a woman have a certain level of fitness. Any woman who meets that threshold is fair game. Doesn’t matter if she’s an upgrade or downgrade.
With women it is different. Women are constantly keeping their eyes out for an upgrade (usually in the form of acquiring more power). But they are also constantly keeping their eyes on other women that might be a threat to their current situation (flirting with other women on occasion, within view of your partner, is a great way to fight hypergamy).
So why does this matter? Well, because awareness is the key here. Don’t for a second think that the girl you are with transcends her biological nature. Be prepared. Women are not nearly as innocent as the media portrays.
But it matters even more because you can do things to control hypergamy. 1) don’t be a pushover 2) don’t give her emotional control over you (once she’s dominated you, she’ll definitely start looking for the next guy) 3) keep relationships with other women and flirt from time to time
Most importantly, prepare yourself for reality. Don’t get caught of guard. Know what you want. Keep an eye out. Confront. And be prepared to walk away.
6. Be ready to let go
There are a billion fish in the sea. There is no one woman who was made just for you. Don’t buy the Disney nonsense. Sure, there are some women who will fit your personality better than others and certainly some that will be more attractive than others. But the sea is so large… don’t despair.
The minute your girlfriend or partner starts jerking you around or treating you like she’s your mother or using shaming language of any kind or just acts like an entitled princess, it’s a sign that it’s time to walk away. But there might be other signs too. Is the girlfriend spending too much time with other guys? Let her. But not on your dime. Don’t think. Just end it. And once you end it, stick to your guns. Be patient. You won’t have to wait too long for the next potential “friend” to come along.
7. Enjoy the company of other women
Remember, you’re the man. You’re in charge of your life. And really, at a biological level (forget the socio-cultural sublayer), that’s how she wants it. Keep female friends. Keep your girlfriend on her toes. Give her subtle cues that, sure you’ve chosen to be with her, but you could also walk away at any moment and replace her.
Oh, and don’t hesitate to flirt with other women from time to time. It’s the antidote to hypergamy.
8. Get good at something
Gaining skill is about the best confidence builder there is. Men need to build, to create, to invent, to solve problems. I don’t care if it’s learning how to play the guitar (the obvious chick magnet) or learning how to hunt deer (less so). Find something you enjoy and throw yourself into mastering it. And don’t get in the habit of giving up. Learning is a long process and often it takes a lifetime. Just stick with it and keep working through those plateaus.
By having a skill or a set of skills, you will gain independence and self-reliance. You will feel confidence in your abilities. And you will always have something to fall back on and gain comfort from if the people in your life fail you.
9. Ditch the nice guy stuff
A friend once said to me: “Things changed when I became a nice guy. Women started to hate me.”
Your goal is not to be nice. Your goal is to be a confident you. There’s no need to be an arrogant prick or a bad boy. You can beat the thugs and pricks and bad boys at their own game. All they have going is that women perceive them to be strong, confident men. And that’s what women want. You can outdo them by being strong and confident and smart.
Oh, one other thing. It’s out of fashion, but you shouldn’t be afraid to maintain the high ground as an honorable gentleman. A guy who treats his woman well, but who also isn’t afraid to walk away with dignity when she starts playing games.
10. Your body matters
Screw the nonsense that it’s what’s inside that counts. Sure, in an ideal world, that would be true. But this is not an ideal world. That’s one thing I am certain of.
Treat your body like a hobby. Turn it into the most fit machine you possibly can, but have fun with it. Go for hikes. Enjoy nature. Learn to gain peace from solitude. Eat the fuel your body needs. Don’t put junk in the gas tank. Eat lots of meat, vegetables and nuts and drink lots of water.
And do it for yourself. Not the women.
Bonus: Most women don’t want to be reasoned with about everything. Not that you won’t find a rare gem of a woman (like your mom:-) who loves reason and is governed by it. But don’t count on it. Most women prefer to consent via the emotions (“does it feel right?”). If you want something, lead her there. Make it feel right. Want a gun in the house? Focus on the emotions related to security. Women want to feel safe and secure, so make sure she knows you’re getting the gun to protect the family.
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/07/31/10-things-i%E2%80%99ll-teach-my-sons-about-women/
10 Things I’ll Teach My Sons About Women
[This guest post was written by Micah Sparacio, originally posted on his eponymous blog]
Sometimes the truth is not comfortable.
So if you’re not comfortable with a reality that betrays our ideals, don’t read on.
The most important thing I’ve learned about women is that you’ve got to be indifferent to their attempts at harnessing you in an emotional net and controlling you. Sounds harsh, but you’re the man. You need to be in charge of yourself. You should not be controlled. You need to lead. You need to make decisions. Forget all the nonsense about equality. Women don’t want that, even if they say that they do (duplicity of intentions is not uncommon in relationships).
What’s important is to understand how women operate at a biological and emotional level. Ultimately, women are not looking for nice guys. They are looking for strong, confident, powerful men. Men who make them feel secure… comfortable. This makes sense from an evolutionary perspective as women needed men they could rely on to protect both them and their children.
So don’t fall victim to the stories about intentions… the narratives about what they need… the pleas for a nice man. It’s tough. But if you forget everything else, remember this one rule: don’t let a woman ever gain control over you at an emotional level. Don’t let her push you around with guilt or pleas for sympathy. Stand up to her when she’s wrong. There’s nothing wrong with providing comfort or offering a compliment… in fact, you should master these skills … but don’t let her manipulate you into giving them. At that point she’s controlling you.
The story you’ll hear preached from the rafters of our society is that women are just looking for a few nice [read: controllable] men. Reject this narrative at all costs.
Instead, focus on being a man. Confident and capable. And don’t be afraid to embrace the higher virtues like humility (just don’t confuse it with cowardice) and strength (but reject the self-obsessed pride that destroys so many celebrities). Women don’t necessarily need these things, but remember, your goal should be to become a great man, not a poser who’s trying to pick up women.
You must become the man you want to become without regard to women… it is only then that you will find that the task of gaining and keeping the attraction of a woman is as simple as breathing. And by doing this you can beat the jerks and the thugs (the one’s who get all the girls) at their own game.
The man who spends his life catering to every whim and fancy and emotional confusion that the average women goes through is quite simply not going to be able to attract or hold onto that woman for very long. He will be used and abused and have his heart broken. There’s no reason to go through this.
So, with that introduction, here are the ten things that I hope my boys come to understand about relating to women.
1. Be confident
Women are attracted to confidence. The irony is that your confidence should not be for the sake of women. It should be natural. Make yourself the best man you can be. Let your confidence derive from who you are. Aim to be the best man you can be simply because that’s who you want to be.
Biologically (and thus subconsciously) women gravitate towards big, strong men or men with confident personalities (sometimes coming through in humor, but humor isn’t necessary). Both of these are ancient signals that the man will help her offspring survive (remember, women are motivated and act at a subconscious level, even if they don’t agree at a conscious level).
2. Smile at rejection
Historically, women have been the rejectors and male the pursuers. This is just how the world works. Like it or not, you’ve got to be thick skinned and realize that rejection is just part of the deal for men.
The good news is that unlike the past, there are billions of women out there. So just move on. Don’t let rejection rock your confidence. Learn, improve, and move on.
You can treat rejection the same way you treat the training for a sport. A necessary evil.
3. Maintain other interests
Never allow a woman to consume all of your thoughts or all of your time. Harder said then done. But there are a number of reasons that you should maintain other interests (hobbies, friends, etc.)
The most important reason is that by having a life outside of your relationship or your obsession, you won’t fall hard when the relationship ends. It helps you stay grounded. It helps you move on when the time comes.
Remember: you never want to be consumed by a woman, because then she’s in control. And she really doesn’t want that. Trust me.
4. Enjoy the company of guys
Make sure to have a core group of guy friends that you spend time with on a regular basis. Have fun. Be active. Be a guy. Tell dirty jokes.
And never abandon your guy friends for a woman. If the woman tries to dominate your time, it’s time to move on. It may be hard, but the minute the woman starts trying to control you like she’s your mother, the relationship is stale and it’s time to get the hell out of dodge.
5. Understand hypergamy
At a biological (subconscious) level women are always trying to upgrade. Men have a hard time understanding this because for most men, at a subconscious level, all that matters is that a woman have a certain level of fitness. Any woman who meets that threshold is fair game. Doesn’t matter if she’s an upgrade or downgrade.
With women it is different. Women are constantly keeping their eyes out for an upgrade (usually in the form of acquiring more power). But they are also constantly keeping their eyes on other women that might be a threat to their current situation (flirting with other women on occasion, within view of your partner, is a great way to fight hypergamy).
So why does this matter? Well, because awareness is the key here. Don’t for a second think that the girl you are with transcends her biological nature. Be prepared. Women are not nearly as innocent as the media portrays.
But it matters even more because you can do things to control hypergamy. 1) don’t be a pushover 2) don’t give her emotional control over you (once she’s dominated you, she’ll definitely start looking for the next guy) 3) keep relationships with other women and flirt from time to time
Most importantly, prepare yourself for reality. Don’t get caught of guard. Know what you want. Keep an eye out. Confront. And be prepared to walk away.
6. Be ready to let go
There are a billion fish in the sea. There is no one woman who was made just for you. Don’t buy the Disney nonsense. Sure, there are some women who will fit your personality better than others and certainly some that will be more attractive than others. But the sea is so large… don’t despair.
The minute your girlfriend or partner starts jerking you around or treating you like she’s your mother or using shaming language of any kind or just acts like an entitled princess, it’s a sign that it’s time to walk away. But there might be other signs too. Is the girlfriend spending too much time with other guys? Let her. But not on your dime. Don’t think. Just end it. And once you end it, stick to your guns. Be patient. You won’t have to wait too long for the next potential “friend” to come along.
7. Enjoy the company of other women
Remember, you’re the man. You’re in charge of your life. And really, at a biological level (forget the socio-cultural sublayer), that’s how she wants it. Keep female friends. Keep your girlfriend on her toes. Give her subtle cues that, sure you’ve chosen to be with her, but you could also walk away at any moment and replace her.
Oh, and don’t hesitate to flirt with other women from time to time. It’s the antidote to hypergamy.
8. Get good at something
Gaining skill is about the best confidence builder there is. Men need to build, to create, to invent, to solve problems. I don’t care if it’s learning how to play the guitar (the obvious chick magnet) or learning how to hunt deer (less so). Find something you enjoy and throw yourself into mastering it. And don’t get in the habit of giving up. Learning is a long process and often it takes a lifetime. Just stick with it and keep working through those plateaus.
By having a skill or a set of skills, you will gain independence and self-reliance. You will feel confidence in your abilities. And you will always have something to fall back on and gain comfort from if the people in your life fail you.
9. Ditch the nice guy stuff
A friend once said to me: “Things changed when I became a nice guy. Women started to hate me.”
Your goal is not to be nice. Your goal is to be a confident you. There’s no need to be an arrogant prick or a bad boy. You can beat the thugs and pricks and bad boys at their own game. All they have going is that women perceive them to be strong, confident men. And that’s what women want. You can outdo them by being strong and confident and smart.
Oh, one other thing. It’s out of fashion, but you shouldn’t be afraid to maintain the high ground as an honorable gentleman. A guy who treats his woman well, but who also isn’t afraid to walk away with dignity when she starts playing games.
10. Your body matters
Screw the nonsense that it’s what’s inside that counts. Sure, in an ideal world, that would be true. But this is not an ideal world. That’s one thing I am certain of.
Treat your body like a hobby. Turn it into the most fit machine you possibly can, but have fun with it. Go for hikes. Enjoy nature. Learn to gain peace from solitude. Eat the fuel your body needs. Don’t put junk in the gas tank. Eat lots of meat, vegetables and nuts and drink lots of water.
And do it for yourself. Not the women.
Bonus: Most women don’t want to be reasoned with about everything. Not that you won’t find a rare gem of a woman (like your mom:-) who loves reason and is governed by it. But don’t count on it. Most women prefer to consent via the emotions (“does it feel right?”). If you want something, lead her there. Make it feel right. Want a gun in the house? Focus on the emotions related to security. Women want to feel safe and secure, so make sure she knows you’re getting the gun to protect the family.
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Advice to Young Men from an Old Man
Words of wisdom from the Old to the Young. Enjoy
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/279126743.html
Advice to Young Men from an Old Man
1. Don’t pick on the weak. It’s immoral. Don’t antagonize the strong without cause, its stupid.
2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time
3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized.
4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose.
5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests.
6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you.
7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean.
8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical.
9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit.
10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most powerful force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you.
11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you.
12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due.
13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves.
14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes.
15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else.
16. Keep fit.
17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part.
18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard.
19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for.
20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else.
21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else.
22. Have and nurture friendships with women.
23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss.
24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older.
25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence.
26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity.
27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there.
28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides.
29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about.
30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest.
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Advice to Young Men from an Old Man
1. Don’t pick on the weak. It’s immoral. Don’t antagonize the strong without cause, its stupid.
2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time
3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized.
4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose.
5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests.
6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you.
7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean.
8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical.
9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit.
10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most powerful force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you.
11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you.
12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due.
13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves.
14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes.
15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else.
16. Keep fit.
17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part.
18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard.
19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for.
20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else.
21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else.
22. Have and nurture friendships with women.
23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss.
24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older.
25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence.
26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity.
27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there.
28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides.
29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about.
30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest.
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Not of This World
We all have heard of that book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". I ask myself why are men and women are from different worlds? The only answer that I can come up with is that you have a lot of people that are not of this world. Face it Men ain't from Mars, Kryton, or Tatooine and neither are women. You separate the genders and they forget how to interact with each other. Like when women buy those self help books on how to get a man and what not. I'm like you have to be damn retarded to have someone tell you the basics of human social interaction that you really learn when you're damn four. It's like people that say they are a professional life coach or motivational speaker. What the fuck? Who can coach you on life? If one needs someone to coach them on life that tells you that one is not living. Man and Women are different but we are both human. We are both of this world and though are functions are different in this world, it is those difference that create a balance between us and makes up complimentary opposites. Feminism has caused the separation between men and woman in "the real world." None can better show this than in the African American community. For forty years now the separation have grown larger and larger and larger. Many Black women have become the enemy to many black men, their children, and themselves.
I had this thought, that someone has to be inhuman if they want someone to treat them inhumanely. What woman would sign up for ill treatment other than someone that don't see themselves as human or nothing at all. Everything that is traditional and great about woman and that has kept us alive as a species they frown and scoff at. To entrust someone with the teaching and building of character within your children and future generations after is a very very big responsibility. Yet they have Out of wedlock babies and have slutish behavior that shows they anything but character, honor, integrity, responsibility etc. There are somethings women have that men don't and vice versa. However, honor, integrity, character, responsibility etc. are universal traits that are NOT just reserved to men. But that's what they want, they want you to be moral and upright while they be immoral and unrighteous and have the nerve to say that you have to accept them for who they are. What if that ain't you? I was thinking about biblical times and how you would always see something in the bible like "And Adam knew Eve". In some chapters you would see that world "know". So I thought to myself, "God knows his creations and like him man and woman know each other. When judgement comes god will either recognize you as one of his creations or he will say "I know the not. So if we as men know women, then how come I do not know the women that say they are women? That's because they are not women. That are not of this world (Thus the title Not of this World lol)." It's amazing how in other cultures the women prefer their men to be men but in ours they want you as anything but. Man is so foreign to them, they don't know what one is. As such these women are foreign to us men. And what happens when something or someone is foreign to you? You become skeptical of them, defensive, fearful, and hostile. And these "women" are so hostile to us because of that fact. But they are not hostile to the low-lives of society, because they know them, they come from the same world.
I had many women tell that they are a natural flirt. Now any smart person will tell you that there is no such thing as a natural flirt. It is all leaned behavior. There are alot of things that feminism has spewed out of it's rotten crouch and called it natural when in fact it is all learned behavior. I use to get mad or upset when a woman would tell they would call me back and wouldn't. Women did not really understand even after I had explain it to it. But my thing was if you say you are going to do something then I will hold you to your word that you will do it. A person word has to mean something in this world, but as we see with black women it don't mean shit. These are women that love the lord and always thanking him but they will break his commandments and a covenant they have made before him. So that makes you wonder why do these chicks want to get married when the vows themselves don't mean shit to them. I have a few suggestions, alimony, meal ticket, child support, spousal support etc.
Let's face it alot of black women are crazy they are fucking looney. And they will try to tell you that they are anything but that. Their whole psyche is fucked up and abnormal, but they think they are normal and how they think is normal. My philosophy was explaining sociopathic people to the class once and I remember thinking that I seen a whole bunch of sociopathic women in my life time, because they know right from wrong and they still do wrong things that they know is wrong and that is abnormal behavior. And you can tell because you need to define what is cheating, a slut, a hoe, this and that etc. and then they say what is it to you how do you define it. Like they want you to define it instead of what the whole world have come to a consensus about hundreds of years ago. And because you see this abnormal behavior they try to make you seem crazy. This is no joke, and Ronin can vouch for this, I had a girl tell me that she did not know Chicago was a major city.... (I need sum time lol) It fucked with my mind cause that woman was not playing at all. This chick thought see was normal and I knew she was anything but that, but you couldn't tell her nothing else. But that's the mindset of a lot of black women as we know, it's everyone else but them. It's like trying to convince a dead person that they are dead and they don't know they are.
Men and women deserve to have someone that is on the same page as them, because from that comes UNDERSTANDING. From that understanding relationships form, trust builds, marriage last, children are raised etc. However if someone is not on the same page as you then that understanding can not be built and you will always be on two sides of the spectrum (or come from two very different worlds). Men ain't from Mars and Women ain't from Venus they are from EARTH and if you don't come from that third rock from the sun then you are an alien and everything that we are and do is alien to you because it is not you. Men and Women come from One World not Two.
I had this thought, that someone has to be inhuman if they want someone to treat them inhumanely. What woman would sign up for ill treatment other than someone that don't see themselves as human or nothing at all. Everything that is traditional and great about woman and that has kept us alive as a species they frown and scoff at. To entrust someone with the teaching and building of character within your children and future generations after is a very very big responsibility. Yet they have Out of wedlock babies and have slutish behavior that shows they anything but character, honor, integrity, responsibility etc. There are somethings women have that men don't and vice versa. However, honor, integrity, character, responsibility etc. are universal traits that are NOT just reserved to men. But that's what they want, they want you to be moral and upright while they be immoral and unrighteous and have the nerve to say that you have to accept them for who they are. What if that ain't you? I was thinking about biblical times and how you would always see something in the bible like "And Adam knew Eve". In some chapters you would see that world "know". So I thought to myself, "God knows his creations and like him man and woman know each other. When judgement comes god will either recognize you as one of his creations or he will say "I know the not. So if we as men know women, then how come I do not know the women that say they are women? That's because they are not women. That are not of this world (Thus the title Not of this World lol)." It's amazing how in other cultures the women prefer their men to be men but in ours they want you as anything but. Man is so foreign to them, they don't know what one is. As such these women are foreign to us men. And what happens when something or someone is foreign to you? You become skeptical of them, defensive, fearful, and hostile. And these "women" are so hostile to us because of that fact. But they are not hostile to the low-lives of society, because they know them, they come from the same world.
I had many women tell that they are a natural flirt. Now any smart person will tell you that there is no such thing as a natural flirt. It is all leaned behavior. There are alot of things that feminism has spewed out of it's rotten crouch and called it natural when in fact it is all learned behavior. I use to get mad or upset when a woman would tell they would call me back and wouldn't. Women did not really understand even after I had explain it to it. But my thing was if you say you are going to do something then I will hold you to your word that you will do it. A person word has to mean something in this world, but as we see with black women it don't mean shit. These are women that love the lord and always thanking him but they will break his commandments and a covenant they have made before him. So that makes you wonder why do these chicks want to get married when the vows themselves don't mean shit to them. I have a few suggestions, alimony, meal ticket, child support, spousal support etc.
Let's face it alot of black women are crazy they are fucking looney. And they will try to tell you that they are anything but that. Their whole psyche is fucked up and abnormal, but they think they are normal and how they think is normal. My philosophy was explaining sociopathic people to the class once and I remember thinking that I seen a whole bunch of sociopathic women in my life time, because they know right from wrong and they still do wrong things that they know is wrong and that is abnormal behavior. And you can tell because you need to define what is cheating, a slut, a hoe, this and that etc. and then they say what is it to you how do you define it. Like they want you to define it instead of what the whole world have come to a consensus about hundreds of years ago. And because you see this abnormal behavior they try to make you seem crazy. This is no joke, and Ronin can vouch for this, I had a girl tell me that she did not know Chicago was a major city.... (I need sum time lol) It fucked with my mind cause that woman was not playing at all. This chick thought see was normal and I knew she was anything but that, but you couldn't tell her nothing else. But that's the mindset of a lot of black women as we know, it's everyone else but them. It's like trying to convince a dead person that they are dead and they don't know they are.
Men and women deserve to have someone that is on the same page as them, because from that comes UNDERSTANDING. From that understanding relationships form, trust builds, marriage last, children are raised etc. However if someone is not on the same page as you then that understanding can not be built and you will always be on two sides of the spectrum (or come from two very different worlds). Men ain't from Mars and Women ain't from Venus they are from EARTH and if you don't come from that third rock from the sun then you are an alien and everything that we are and do is alien to you because it is not you. Men and Women come from One World not Two.
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