U know truthfully, there is no secret because the secret is out. The numbers do not lie and it's just sad as hell really. But what can you do? What can you do?..........
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Friday, June 26, 2009
Men Cry In The Dark
No this is not about the book at all, it's just the pic. However the title says it all. We as Men do cry in the Dark. Women want us to be emotional and what not all out in the open but it's not that simple. We as men can't show certain kinds of emotions out in the open because it weakens us even to our women at times. You show too much emotion and you're seen as a weakling and a punk. But in the dark there are certain emotions a man can show because who is going to see him? No one that's who! This doesn't mean that you can't show love to your woman or child. But things like crying you just can't do, women will think you were a bitch if you did. So we cry in the dark. But you know it's good that we do cry in the dark because whether they know it or not, it is a challenge for a woman. See a spiritually weak woman is afraid of the dark, and you will not find too many women willing to walk in the dark. But even in darkness there is light and in that light you will find your man. See even a man wants to be found and you will find him in the dark dealing with all the ills that world throws at him fighting against them and dealing with them. I think that is how all men have dealt with their problems. In the dark where no one can see and he can battle them without interruption or ridicule or whatever. If you are spiritually strong woman you can find your man and embrace him and let him know that you are in the dark with him ready to fight with him and console him in the end. That's a magnificent woman who can do that because not alot can.
Good Game from Alexyss K Tylor
I love Alexyss cause she spit real game but in a country ignorant way but she is articulate and educated. Not to mention she's a beautiful older woman that is aging gracefully. Anyway, Enjoy people...
Thursday, June 25, 2009
RIP Michael Jackson
I can't believe he's gone. I learned how to dance because of him. I remember having his albums on record not on tape but record. This is just sad day, can't say anymore.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Black Women Zombies
I wrote this awhile ago for a message board and now I am bringing it to my blog. I still feel that it is true and I stand by it all the way.
"I just thought about this. I was remembering when i went through my greatest hurt with a woman and I talked to my sister. I'll never forget what she told me cause she said I was talking to a dead woman and that I was trying to bring her back to life. Since I been on this site I realized something just now, alot of these Black Women are dead women. I mean that they are spiritually dead. As Denzel said in Malcolm X, "You are dead spiritually, you dead to the knowledge of yourself, you are dead to the knowledge of your people, and you are dead to the knowledge of your God."
"These women are just like zombies and they bringing forth half dead children. And these grave digging ass simps are digging them up trying to revive them but you can't revive someone that's already dead. I mean you got women that go to church yet because they are spiritually dead, the word of God doesn't nurture their souls (even if they know the bible word for word). Now I understand what it really means when BMV coined the term "Let em Burn", because you have to leave dead people behind and in the grave where they belong (and what do u do with zombie bodies? U let em burn). You have to become one with a women that is alive not dead. I now understand the wall of silence is to keep out the zombies from infecting us good men and turning us into spiritually dead men. Cause lets think about it these women claim how educated they are but none of them is smarter than Granny, Big Momma etc. who never went to college. Big momma had wisdom along with intelligence and that's why we love her and wish she was alive in women today. Now I understand so much and I can see it. That's just the epiphany I had tonight, thought I'd share lol... What do y'all think?"
Now this is why I say i have a sixth sense because I do see dead people, spiritually dead people. It saddens and disappoint me the most that I see it most in Black women. I'm not saying all but the majority, that is a definite yes. I guess it's sad because we are a spiritual people and black women of today want to claim the great legacy of Black women throughout time, yet they do not have the great wisdom and spiritual power that these women once had. Either they lost it or gave it up. Sometimes you do all that you can, and when you done all you can, you can't do no more. It's like that Three Six Mafia Song "Don't Save her, She don't wanna be Saved", and it's true. I look at these women and I think of Elsa from "Indiana Jones and The Last Crusade". Elsa choose the wrong grail and donovan lost his life and what did the knight say? "He Chose Poorly." Therefore if he chose poorly so did Elsa, right? Now Indiana has the grail chooses wisely and save his father and Elsa tries to still the grail knowing she can't go with it beyond the great seal. Elsa looses her life, because her dumb ass wouldn't give her other hand to Indiana Jones.
See alot of these women are just like that, they will lose themselves and there souls to have it all or whatever they consider to be like the holy grail to them. But the crazy shyt, is when simps try to go after these women like they are holy grail and lose their life trying to reach it. Now let me break it down to you of this significance. The Holy Grail is the World, Worldly things, Sin, Man, Woman etc. Elsa is Woman, Indiana Jones is Man, and Sean Connery AKA Henry Jones is God. Now Man holds on to woman as hard as he can but because of the greed or any kind of sin in her soul, she is lost to him because of it and due to her own fault. Now Indiana goes after the grail and he can reach it but he's about to make the same mistake as Elsa. Now sidebar, Most of them damn simps have already lost their lives trying to reach the Holy Grail but it is what it is, they weren't worth saving either. But what saves him is when his father calls his name and tells him to let it go. Now that is the sign of a person that is spiritually alive. This is true for men and women. We may not hear god all the time but when he calls out our name, we know to listen and to give him our other hand. Now another sidebar real quick, I am going to change the significance of the holy grail to faith, Jesus, God etc. for the last part. At the End of the Movie. Indiana is sad about losing Elsa and is Father tells him, "Elsa never really believed in the Grail. She thought she found a prize." Brothers, we made feel bad losing a woman or anything but we survived the crucible and we are still alive. As Antwan Fisher said, "I'm still standing, I'm still Strong." Well I guess that concludes this rant or whatever for the day lol. Use your sixth sense and stay away from them damn zombies. That goes the same for u ladies lol....
"I just thought about this. I was remembering when i went through my greatest hurt with a woman and I talked to my sister. I'll never forget what she told me cause she said I was talking to a dead woman and that I was trying to bring her back to life. Since I been on this site I realized something just now, alot of these Black Women are dead women. I mean that they are spiritually dead. As Denzel said in Malcolm X, "You are dead spiritually, you dead to the knowledge of yourself, you are dead to the knowledge of your people, and you are dead to the knowledge of your God."
"These women are just like zombies and they bringing forth half dead children. And these grave digging ass simps are digging them up trying to revive them but you can't revive someone that's already dead. I mean you got women that go to church yet because they are spiritually dead, the word of God doesn't nurture their souls (even if they know the bible word for word). Now I understand what it really means when BMV coined the term "Let em Burn", because you have to leave dead people behind and in the grave where they belong (and what do u do with zombie bodies? U let em burn). You have to become one with a women that is alive not dead. I now understand the wall of silence is to keep out the zombies from infecting us good men and turning us into spiritually dead men. Cause lets think about it these women claim how educated they are but none of them is smarter than Granny, Big Momma etc. who never went to college. Big momma had wisdom along with intelligence and that's why we love her and wish she was alive in women today. Now I understand so much and I can see it. That's just the epiphany I had tonight, thought I'd share lol... What do y'all think?"
Now this is why I say i have a sixth sense because I do see dead people, spiritually dead people. It saddens and disappoint me the most that I see it most in Black women. I'm not saying all but the majority, that is a definite yes. I guess it's sad because we are a spiritual people and black women of today want to claim the great legacy of Black women throughout time, yet they do not have the great wisdom and spiritual power that these women once had. Either they lost it or gave it up. Sometimes you do all that you can, and when you done all you can, you can't do no more. It's like that Three Six Mafia Song "Don't Save her, She don't wanna be Saved", and it's true. I look at these women and I think of Elsa from "Indiana Jones and The Last Crusade". Elsa choose the wrong grail and donovan lost his life and what did the knight say? "He Chose Poorly." Therefore if he chose poorly so did Elsa, right? Now Indiana has the grail chooses wisely and save his father and Elsa tries to still the grail knowing she can't go with it beyond the great seal. Elsa looses her life, because her dumb ass wouldn't give her other hand to Indiana Jones.
See alot of these women are just like that, they will lose themselves and there souls to have it all or whatever they consider to be like the holy grail to them. But the crazy shyt, is when simps try to go after these women like they are holy grail and lose their life trying to reach it. Now let me break it down to you of this significance. The Holy Grail is the World, Worldly things, Sin, Man, Woman etc. Elsa is Woman, Indiana Jones is Man, and Sean Connery AKA Henry Jones is God. Now Man holds on to woman as hard as he can but because of the greed or any kind of sin in her soul, she is lost to him because of it and due to her own fault. Now Indiana goes after the grail and he can reach it but he's about to make the same mistake as Elsa. Now sidebar, Most of them damn simps have already lost their lives trying to reach the Holy Grail but it is what it is, they weren't worth saving either. But what saves him is when his father calls his name and tells him to let it go. Now that is the sign of a person that is spiritually alive. This is true for men and women. We may not hear god all the time but when he calls out our name, we know to listen and to give him our other hand. Now another sidebar real quick, I am going to change the significance of the holy grail to faith, Jesus, God etc. for the last part. At the End of the Movie. Indiana is sad about losing Elsa and is Father tells him, "Elsa never really believed in the Grail. She thought she found a prize." Brothers, we made feel bad losing a woman or anything but we survived the crucible and we are still alive. As Antwan Fisher said, "I'm still standing, I'm still Strong." Well I guess that concludes this rant or whatever for the day lol. Use your sixth sense and stay away from them damn zombies. That goes the same for u ladies lol....
Say it ain't So Jill!
Today I found out Jill Scott is a single mother. I sorta feel pissed and betrayed because of all the things she talks about in her songs and now she goes and do this. Something about this just doesn't make sense to me, why would a man who is about to wife you leave after the baby is born it just don't add up? And then she says the the stupidest shyt in the world, "I was raised by a single mother and I came out fine." How does continuing the cycle you grew up in shows that you came out fine? I just don't get that. I'm on essence and all these women are supporting her, especially the single mothers like it's a cool thing and what not and IT'S NOT. Don't they know that the high child delinquency rate are due to being raised in single parent households as well as the high school drop out rate. I just feel like Jill is a hypocrite just like Erika Badu. But one of my friends said, that alot of them pro-black consciousness are very hypocritical and now I see what he is saying. I love Jill's song "The Fact Is I Need You", I think it was a TKO to the so called "Strong Independent" Woman, but now she does this and I'm like... WTF?... Well it is what it is SMH. Good luck to her, I guess...
Monday, June 22, 2009
Big Girls Need Love Too
This poems sums up how i feel about big women. Now there is nothing wrong with loving a big woman, because love is blind and you can't help who you love. However I do have a problem with the laziness of women today and they expect you to go along with it as if you are accepting who they really are and you are not. I have dated or had a crush on a few big women in my time i must admit. But I didn't see them for their size I saw them for the person they were inside truly. They were nice and cooperative and confident in who they were. Personally I prefer a woman, physically, that is of mid build with an hour glass shape body. I just like something i can hold on to and wrap my arms around(lol). Now I do have a problem with men that pump these women head up like if you big your beautiful. Not every big woman is beautiful and you will find alot that are more trouble and shallow than a chick that is skinny. Now me, I don't look at a big woman as a ugly woman, If she is big, I just think about a few factors that relate to me like: Is she healthy? Will she cook healthy things? If with my support will she want to work out? Will she get bigger as time go by? Will my children be born healthy and without complication? What physical health teachings will she teach my children? Can I have this woman on my arm and not worry about what others think? I don't know if that sounds shallow but those question comes to mind. As a guy my woman is a representation of who I am and the significance of a big woman does have a negative stigma on a man at times. I remember seeing this status that said "A man that likes a big girl is a man that thinks for himself" or something like that. Now a man that has factored everything in and loves his woman no matter what is a man that has courage and thinks for himself. But for the rest they date BBW's because they are supposedly easy or they have low standards. And to the women that says that Big women are apart of our culture, well, that is true but there just one thing. THEM CHICKS ARE RICH! In some African Cultures Big women are a social status of wealth and even royalty. But this is America. How many BBW's you know that are rich besides Mo'Nique, Oprah, and Queen Latifah? As far as broke men liking big women, this is true, but there are exceptions to the rule. But name one rich man that married a BBW before he or she made it rich?
Now personally, the most beautiful BBW I would marry and i don't care what no one thinks is Jill Scott. That woman has a beautiful spirit and is a rare find. But anyway, back to the matter at hand. There is something wrong when +70% of Black women are overweight or obese. It's even worse when they can predict that by 2034 100% will be overweight or obese. This is a problem that must be addressed. Fellas quit simpin not every big woman has a pretty face and beautiful spirit, they can be sassy and alot worse then skinny women. But who you decide to mess with is your own business. Ladies be who you really are inside, but take care yourselves healthy. It's all up to you. You ladies are the question and the answer to this.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
The Reeducation of the Black Authority... Straight Ether
There isn't much to say but.... CHECKMATE!!!!!!!!!!!
Stand? for what?
http://www.theblackchannel.net/
I watch this video and he had some good points till he got to interracial dating. I feel like we should keep our relationship views in the closet and unite on the common issues that unite us. Now to dictate if a man is black by the woman he has on his arm is foolish. Since when did we as men let pussy define who we are? This is why a stayed a virgin for so long because i believed that pussy didn't make me a man nor did it define who i am. For another man to tell me that I ain't black because i date outside my race is a bitch move. Cause that's what these ankle ass women do. I'm like as long as u love your wife and take care of your family, I could give a damn about what color she is. It's whatever to me. Hell the way it is looking you might have to date interracially if you want to find a better quality of woman because the picking are slime when it comes to black women the stats will show you that. I feel that a man or woman should find love and happiness wherever love takes them. I'm black whether a black woman is on my arm or not, that is something only God can take away from me.
I watch this video and he had some good points till he got to interracial dating. I feel like we should keep our relationship views in the closet and unite on the common issues that unite us. Now to dictate if a man is black by the woman he has on his arm is foolish. Since when did we as men let pussy define who we are? This is why a stayed a virgin for so long because i believed that pussy didn't make me a man nor did it define who i am. For another man to tell me that I ain't black because i date outside my race is a bitch move. Cause that's what these ankle ass women do. I'm like as long as u love your wife and take care of your family, I could give a damn about what color she is. It's whatever to me. Hell the way it is looking you might have to date interracially if you want to find a better quality of woman because the picking are slime when it comes to black women the stats will show you that. I feel that a man or woman should find love and happiness wherever love takes them. I'm black whether a black woman is on my arm or not, that is something only God can take away from me.
Happy Father's Day: My Thoughts on it
First Off, Happy Father's Day to all the Fathers out there. I know this is your day and you do not get the justice you deserve, not even from the President of the United States. I know that you can not get a break on you own day and not here about deadbeat dad's and men that ain't shyt by women. Even though you never here of nothing of the many irresponsible and trifling mother's on there on their own day. I know that roughly, only 3% of fathers are granted custody of there children in court. I know that inspite of the fact that you want to be a father you are pushed away by the mother of your child, yet you are hounded to be a better father. I know that it is not easy for you and I am truly sorry. I would like to salute you and show my respect to all those men who are good dad's and love their children. I'm not going to say to you that you need to step up and do more because we could say the same for mothers and that's all you hear from women and simp ass men anyway. I will say that you are irreplaceable, even thought women say that you are and they can do your job in raising children. I know that some of you are not the best dad's in the world, but atleast you try. Personally I didn't have the best dad in the world, and i can say figuratively speaking i have been raised by a single mother all my life. However, if it wasn't for that man that made me sit at the table and learn math and made me read the books i wanted, I wouldn't have been the success I am today. Sometimes you can't focus on what a person didn't do but what they did do. My dad played with me, gave me my diverse taste in music, he taught me to clean, tried to teach me how to cook, and how to manage money and much more. To my father's father thanks for giving me my love for old school hats i'll never forget that. To my mother's father thanks for being so loving at your old age and just being loving towards me. To my great grandfather thank you for teaching me that it's ok to be like you and to be a calm and kind man but still a strong man. Thanks for showing me that two people can stay together till death due us part. Thank you for giving me pride in our family and pride in where we come from. I hope to one day be like you and have a big family like you did. Now the men i mention (except great granddad lol)are far from being world class dad's but they did do some good things inspite of the bad and it is to that I give them credit. I hope to join the ranks of being a father and i hope i do the best i can towards my children. To all the Father's keep doing what you're doing. A Father's Love is sometimes stronger than a Mother's even though the media will never admit to this. Remember that you are the true giver of Life and you are the Sun. Know that you are of great worth and of great value. God Created you first and gave you the tools to be his greatest masterpieces on this earth. To all the so call bad father's always remember that you can't change somethings, but as long you're alive you can still make up for things and be better men and better father's. The game is not over for you to be a true father to your kids, you may not get everything right, but just do the best you can. Happy Father's Day Everyone, Peace be Upon you all.
A Warrior Queen
That's a true queen never wavering, not afraid of a fight, and always loyal. it's a shame that there's only slightly above 30% that are. Much love to the Queens that are still in power.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Choose the ball or Choose the Sword
This video sums up what i'm feeling right now. I think alot of simps and low men have chosen the ball while the very few men of honor have chosen the sword. At some point in a man's life we have to choose from what is right and from is easy. Alot have chosen what is easy instead of what is right. Furthermore, they have also chosen what is safe. It is Safe to say what is "Politically Correct" and things that won't stir the pot, especially when it comes to women. We need to call women on their bullshyt and tell them, "You are Wrong!" "You are not always the Victim!" "Take Responsibility for your Actions!" "The World does not revolve around you!" "Yes you look fat in that dress!"(lol) "And No You are Not Self entitled to a Man!" I don't know why some men would blow smoke up these women asses just to get their dick wet, or settle for a woman that is low caliber and will give you hell and won't respect or treat you as a man. I love when Lone Wolf says to his son that if you choose the ball, you choose death, cause in real life you do. It's like the red pill and blue pill. Alot of people O.D. on that blue pill. They don't want to live in the real world and face the truth. To be a true man one must always live in reality and accept the truth good or bad. The way of the sword is a hard road but it is the way to the true light, Jesus knows that better than anyone (peace be with him). So if I say what I say and it offends men as well as a lot of women I really don't give a fuck, because it needs to be said. I choose the way of honor, the way of the sword, the road not taken. I hope it brings me to the light before my time in this world is done. But we have to choose between the two even women. However, alot choose the ball instead of the sword. That's why the real queens are the one's that choose the way of the sword and can easily cut down the one's that chose the ball. Women who choose the sword are easily attacked vigorously by those who chose the ball but they can never defeat them. This is just my opinion, you have to choose for yourself, because I've made that choice for myself and i stand by mines 100%. What do you choose? The Red Pill or the Blue Pill? The Ball or the Sword?
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