Words of wisdom from the Old to the Young. Enjoy
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Advice to Young Men from an Old Man
1. Don’t pick on the weak. It’s immoral. Don’t antagonize the strong without cause, its stupid.
2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time
3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized.
4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose.
5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests.
6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you.
7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean.
8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical.
9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit.
10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most powerful force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you.
11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you.
12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due.
13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves.
14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes.
15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else.
16. Keep fit.
17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part.
18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard.
19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for.
20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else.
21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else.
22. Have and nurture friendships with women.
23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss.
24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older.
25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence.
26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity.
27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there.
28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides.
29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about.
30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest.
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Not of This World
We all have heard of that book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". I ask myself why are men and women are from different worlds? The only answer that I can come up with is that you have a lot of people that are not of this world. Face it Men ain't from Mars, Kryton, or Tatooine and neither are women. You separate the genders and they forget how to interact with each other. Like when women buy those self help books on how to get a man and what not. I'm like you have to be damn retarded to have someone tell you the basics of human social interaction that you really learn when you're damn four. It's like people that say they are a professional life coach or motivational speaker. What the fuck? Who can coach you on life? If one needs someone to coach them on life that tells you that one is not living. Man and Women are different but we are both human. We are both of this world and though are functions are different in this world, it is those difference that create a balance between us and makes up complimentary opposites. Feminism has caused the separation between men and woman in "the real world." None can better show this than in the African American community. For forty years now the separation have grown larger and larger and larger. Many Black women have become the enemy to many black men, their children, and themselves.
I had this thought, that someone has to be inhuman if they want someone to treat them inhumanely. What woman would sign up for ill treatment other than someone that don't see themselves as human or nothing at all. Everything that is traditional and great about woman and that has kept us alive as a species they frown and scoff at. To entrust someone with the teaching and building of character within your children and future generations after is a very very big responsibility. Yet they have Out of wedlock babies and have slutish behavior that shows they anything but character, honor, integrity, responsibility etc. There are somethings women have that men don't and vice versa. However, honor, integrity, character, responsibility etc. are universal traits that are NOT just reserved to men. But that's what they want, they want you to be moral and upright while they be immoral and unrighteous and have the nerve to say that you have to accept them for who they are. What if that ain't you? I was thinking about biblical times and how you would always see something in the bible like "And Adam knew Eve". In some chapters you would see that world "know". So I thought to myself, "God knows his creations and like him man and woman know each other. When judgement comes god will either recognize you as one of his creations or he will say "I know the not. So if we as men know women, then how come I do not know the women that say they are women? That's because they are not women. That are not of this world (Thus the title Not of this World lol)." It's amazing how in other cultures the women prefer their men to be men but in ours they want you as anything but. Man is so foreign to them, they don't know what one is. As such these women are foreign to us men. And what happens when something or someone is foreign to you? You become skeptical of them, defensive, fearful, and hostile. And these "women" are so hostile to us because of that fact. But they are not hostile to the low-lives of society, because they know them, they come from the same world.
I had many women tell that they are a natural flirt. Now any smart person will tell you that there is no such thing as a natural flirt. It is all leaned behavior. There are alot of things that feminism has spewed out of it's rotten crouch and called it natural when in fact it is all learned behavior. I use to get mad or upset when a woman would tell they would call me back and wouldn't. Women did not really understand even after I had explain it to it. But my thing was if you say you are going to do something then I will hold you to your word that you will do it. A person word has to mean something in this world, but as we see with black women it don't mean shit. These are women that love the lord and always thanking him but they will break his commandments and a covenant they have made before him. So that makes you wonder why do these chicks want to get married when the vows themselves don't mean shit to them. I have a few suggestions, alimony, meal ticket, child support, spousal support etc.
Let's face it alot of black women are crazy they are fucking looney. And they will try to tell you that they are anything but that. Their whole psyche is fucked up and abnormal, but they think they are normal and how they think is normal. My philosophy was explaining sociopathic people to the class once and I remember thinking that I seen a whole bunch of sociopathic women in my life time, because they know right from wrong and they still do wrong things that they know is wrong and that is abnormal behavior. And you can tell because you need to define what is cheating, a slut, a hoe, this and that etc. and then they say what is it to you how do you define it. Like they want you to define it instead of what the whole world have come to a consensus about hundreds of years ago. And because you see this abnormal behavior they try to make you seem crazy. This is no joke, and Ronin can vouch for this, I had a girl tell me that she did not know Chicago was a major city.... (I need sum time lol) It fucked with my mind cause that woman was not playing at all. This chick thought see was normal and I knew she was anything but that, but you couldn't tell her nothing else. But that's the mindset of a lot of black women as we know, it's everyone else but them. It's like trying to convince a dead person that they are dead and they don't know they are.
Men and women deserve to have someone that is on the same page as them, because from that comes UNDERSTANDING. From that understanding relationships form, trust builds, marriage last, children are raised etc. However if someone is not on the same page as you then that understanding can not be built and you will always be on two sides of the spectrum (or come from two very different worlds). Men ain't from Mars and Women ain't from Venus they are from EARTH and if you don't come from that third rock from the sun then you are an alien and everything that we are and do is alien to you because it is not you. Men and Women come from One World not Two.
I had this thought, that someone has to be inhuman if they want someone to treat them inhumanely. What woman would sign up for ill treatment other than someone that don't see themselves as human or nothing at all. Everything that is traditional and great about woman and that has kept us alive as a species they frown and scoff at. To entrust someone with the teaching and building of character within your children and future generations after is a very very big responsibility. Yet they have Out of wedlock babies and have slutish behavior that shows they anything but character, honor, integrity, responsibility etc. There are somethings women have that men don't and vice versa. However, honor, integrity, character, responsibility etc. are universal traits that are NOT just reserved to men. But that's what they want, they want you to be moral and upright while they be immoral and unrighteous and have the nerve to say that you have to accept them for who they are. What if that ain't you? I was thinking about biblical times and how you would always see something in the bible like "And Adam knew Eve". In some chapters you would see that world "know". So I thought to myself, "God knows his creations and like him man and woman know each other. When judgement comes god will either recognize you as one of his creations or he will say "I know the not. So if we as men know women, then how come I do not know the women that say they are women? That's because they are not women. That are not of this world (Thus the title Not of this World lol)." It's amazing how in other cultures the women prefer their men to be men but in ours they want you as anything but. Man is so foreign to them, they don't know what one is. As such these women are foreign to us men. And what happens when something or someone is foreign to you? You become skeptical of them, defensive, fearful, and hostile. And these "women" are so hostile to us because of that fact. But they are not hostile to the low-lives of society, because they know them, they come from the same world.
I had many women tell that they are a natural flirt. Now any smart person will tell you that there is no such thing as a natural flirt. It is all leaned behavior. There are alot of things that feminism has spewed out of it's rotten crouch and called it natural when in fact it is all learned behavior. I use to get mad or upset when a woman would tell they would call me back and wouldn't. Women did not really understand even after I had explain it to it. But my thing was if you say you are going to do something then I will hold you to your word that you will do it. A person word has to mean something in this world, but as we see with black women it don't mean shit. These are women that love the lord and always thanking him but they will break his commandments and a covenant they have made before him. So that makes you wonder why do these chicks want to get married when the vows themselves don't mean shit to them. I have a few suggestions, alimony, meal ticket, child support, spousal support etc.
Let's face it alot of black women are crazy they are fucking looney. And they will try to tell you that they are anything but that. Their whole psyche is fucked up and abnormal, but they think they are normal and how they think is normal. My philosophy was explaining sociopathic people to the class once and I remember thinking that I seen a whole bunch of sociopathic women in my life time, because they know right from wrong and they still do wrong things that they know is wrong and that is abnormal behavior. And you can tell because you need to define what is cheating, a slut, a hoe, this and that etc. and then they say what is it to you how do you define it. Like they want you to define it instead of what the whole world have come to a consensus about hundreds of years ago. And because you see this abnormal behavior they try to make you seem crazy. This is no joke, and Ronin can vouch for this, I had a girl tell me that she did not know Chicago was a major city.... (I need sum time lol) It fucked with my mind cause that woman was not playing at all. This chick thought see was normal and I knew she was anything but that, but you couldn't tell her nothing else. But that's the mindset of a lot of black women as we know, it's everyone else but them. It's like trying to convince a dead person that they are dead and they don't know they are.
Men and women deserve to have someone that is on the same page as them, because from that comes UNDERSTANDING. From that understanding relationships form, trust builds, marriage last, children are raised etc. However if someone is not on the same page as you then that understanding can not be built and you will always be on two sides of the spectrum (or come from two very different worlds). Men ain't from Mars and Women ain't from Venus they are from EARTH and if you don't come from that third rock from the sun then you are an alien and everything that we are and do is alien to you because it is not you. Men and Women come from One World not Two.
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