YOU'RE OUT OF ORDER

I wrote this on a message board I frequent alot and thought I would bring it here. Hope you like it.

"It's been a while since I've done a think piece like Black Women Zombies, but i had to write this down. I was listening to KRS One speak on youtube, and he was talking about putting women in their proper place. He further goes on to say that in Hinduism when the woman is out of order the whole family is out of order. Suddenly something clicked in my head. Amerikkkan Women especially Black Women ARE OUT OF ORDER. I then realized that Feminism and the Government has gotten women so far out of order that they are out of control. They are actually like Hurricanes and Tornadoes just spinning out of control. We all know that women are the weaker vessel and it is easily to drive them off the path better than it is for one to drive men off the path. Now as Blacks we have seen how the government and feminism and even the Willie Lynch Syndrome has gotten these women out of order. But the key thing that has gotten Black women out of order is Single Parenthood. You take a man out of the equation and there is NO ORDER. What does a woman know about Order anyhow they don't even understand JUSTICE if you look at the divorce rates, child support, alimony, etc. Also we can see their brutality when it comes to violence.

For instance, now maybe it's just me, but the most brutal fights i have seen in my adolescence were girl fights. But what does it show, that women are not taught justice, order, honor, fairness etc. Everything real men are taught. The Courts as the brothers on the board have shown that Judges give out "special brands of Justice" to women (aka Pussy Passes) even when they are out of order. Now what gets me is that women want a man to be "in order" and "to go in order" but the woman herself is out of her. The best example of was when Shockalate was talking how the man has to be the hunter and what not but she herself was not in order as Brotha Quest 07 proved. Women themselves have they own order they have to follow. Everything in this world has a natural order and when something goes out of order, the natural order is out of balance.

Now as I have said before, Single motherhood has gotten women out of order. And what do you have? A very high rate of children delinquency. Any child psychologist will tell you that mother-father relationship is key in the development of the child. But if there is no relationship, the child becomes underdeveloped. Thus the child become off balance. True Fathers bring the balance to their families and to the home. They literally bring the order to the family. But if there is no Father present, where is the order? Women always talk about they want a "good man", which they are saying they want a man that will bring some order, but they themselves are persons of or adhere to order. Think about it, you're always fighting with a woman because realistically she does not want to grow the fuck up. Women today are in what I like to call their 2nd Childhood. You got to treat them like they are your damn kids and then when they do something, they act like they do not know right from wrong. And when you tell them something, what is the number one thing you here? YOU AIN'T MY DADDY! I'M FUCKING GROWN! DON'T TALK TO ME LIKE I'M SOME DAMN KID! Yet and still these are the women that act their shoe size and not their age.

When you have women who are out of order themselves, then you have children, communities, society itself all out of order. My Uncle Told me this and I never have forgot it, "REAL MEN LOVE ORDER." However, we have at least two generations (and that number may be too generous) of men raised without order in the home. So that breeds chaos within state and future generations that know nothing about order. Why? "Because Mama can't teach what Mama don't know." BMV is all about family. What this means is that we are men who believe in order, (And we will let a bitch burn if she does not respect that). You know how when you have a judge tell a defendant "you're out of order?" Well these women are way out of order, but it takes Strong men, Spartans, to put them back into order. Not just them but these damn simps they got roaming around here. Now i'm not saying marry ankles. Let them hoes burn to a damn crisp. But what I am saying is restore order back into family, community, state, courts, government etc. Do what the Bro's here do everyday and continue to Speak out about the injustices we see everyday. We Spartans may be outnumbered but we can out endure the enemy and it is endurance that wins wars.

I hope I got my points across. I just really needed to write this for myself. Respect to the Bruhs on the board."

KRS-ONE gives some knowledge

I had to post this and share because this was very enlightening to me.

That's Not My Pussy, That's My Woman

While Baby Boy knew that
Evette was his pussy
I knew that she was my woman

While niggas where concerned
with finding pussy, I was concerned
with making her my woman

Man was not made to be alone
and with her I am not
for see is my woman
the rib I traded in
for god to give me
Yeah, that's my woman

While you're steady looking
for Ms. Pretty Pussy
I found Ms. Lady
and Ms. Lady is
a whole lotta woman
indeed she is more than a woman
because she is my woman

See, while you're an
ugly gremlin looking ass
pussy monster that needs
to be fed pussy. She found
a handsome king that feed her
soul as she feeds mines and loves
the itis feeling we get as we both
drift off into sleep in each other's arms

While you boast how good
your head game and pussy skills are
She showed me her mind and her spirit
and how she is alot more than just
a big ass, nice tits, a pretty face, and
JUST PUSSY

Now tell me, Ain't she a woman?
She is such a fuckin lady
Don't want her to be my
baby's mama, but the mother
of my children, the rock that
holds this family together
The woman of this house

And while you try to beat it up
I BEAT IT OUT! I make her cum
physically, mentally, and spirtually
that's muliples time three
showing the true meaning of
a multi-orgasmic man

While they are concerned with
how man women they got
I got one, cause like Nas
all I need is one mic
Tyrese said all I need is one girl
and one girl I got

A queen that sits high on her throne
she kicks ass and she takes names
and women pretender and fakes
come for her crown
She stays her sword hand and
kills them with a word
for she is a woman of truth
while they proclaim that
they are a boss bitch
My woman is a boss. Bitch!

While niggas invested in pussy
who's stock plumits like the Great Depression
I invested in woman. A woman
and her stock is always going up
giving me residual income
and making my soul rich
because she is worth more that gold
A Virtuous and Phenomenal woman
yeah, that's her to the T

So when you see my girl
trying to smash and
get your boyfriend number 2 on
cause you're tryin to "get pussy"
don't be shocked or suprised
when you're access is denied
and she demisses yo ass
and tells you that that
is MY PUSSY

Dear Summer 7/16/09

Dear Summer,

Thought about you today and had to write you again. I'm here in Atlanta all alone and wishing you were. I wish I could have you meet my great grandparents, if they were still alive, to show you how I want my marriage to be. I know i often rant about my family issues but it's only because I'm disgusted at what I see. I see nothing but hyenas and if you know anything about hyenas clan, they are governed by women and the men are on the bottom of the totem pole. I don't see myself as a hyena I see myself as a Lion and I will stand up as Man and play my natural role as one. I think of you and you bring the Lion out in me more and you let me be the Lion and i love that about you. I know what the bible says and all but I just don't feel like I should do that under the expense of me being emasculated as a man. But anyway, I wanna thank you for accepting me as I am and taking me as I am. I know I have faults and I can try your patience but inspite of all of that you still like me as I am and you don't try to change me. You give me encouraging words and you just talk to me. I love to talk and show parts of myself that I never get to show and i love doing that with you. There's apart in DMX's song Dogs for Life that I love because that how I want my relationship to be, it goes:

"Now who I am is who Ill be until I die, either accept it or dont fuck withIt. But if we gon be dogs then you stuck with it!Let me go my way but walk with meSee what I see, watch me then, talk with me. Share my pain, make it a little easier to deal with it. Cause despite all the fame you Im a keep it real with it (true)! Rob and steal withcha dog nigga whatRide till we die, on till its up.Love is love and I enjoy the love, But when its conflict then it destroys the love.You cant toy with love, niggas take to the heart. You aint gon find too many niggas willing to, bark in the dark.(come on!)Keep your head from the start, dont fuck it up now, Later on they be hit like, fuck it how? ? You my dog and I die for you, keep it like that, Give me unconditional love, and I give it right back."

That's how I see where we are going. I like that you are not afraid to go there with me and I can tell you anything without being judged. You are so understanding that it amazes me. And then I think about the movie scarface and I say to myself "She's a Tiger". And that what you are to me Summer, A tiger. I remember seeing a documentary on Tigers and how they were like a keystone to a bridge. And that's what you are to me Summer a keystone to the bridge we are building with each other. Eventhough we are still working on the foundations. we are still building something that is wonderful in my eyes. I know i can be jealous when it comes to you, but hell you're beautiful and beyond. I always know there will guys swooning over you, but I just be like, "damn give her room to breathe, you messing up my time with my baby. Soak up sum game and get your on and get off of mine." However, I know that you are with me and you are not going no where and you show me that everyday. There are times when I envy you just for being the way you are, having the kind of parents and siblings you have. Don't get me wrong, I'm content, but it's like, wow! That's what i strive for with my own kids because i didn't have that. Now, it was all bad, but it seems like it's getting worse as I get older and those happy times are just memories.

Summer you inspire me to do so much. I think of ways to show you how much I care or feel about you. You just have my imagination working overtime. I was in the pool by myself thinking about playing in the pool with you, kissing you, and just holding you. There are just times when I just want to go on a series of adventures with you and just see the world with you and experience so much with you at my side. Sometimes I see you as home, and I can't wait to come home. So summer if you ever wanted me there to stay all you have to do say come home and i will come with the quickness, through hell or high water lol. I love our teamwork, and how we communicate on everything. Like nothing is to big or too much that we can't talk about. It's Like we have our own inside joke that only we know about and wouldn't make sense to the rest of the world. I want to always keep strong communication with you. Like I always say, It's you and me against world, and I'm always ready to fight and to go to war. I have never wanted to fight or protect something so much the way i want to with you. I see you as a precious gift as a Queen that I must defend in order to save the kingdom. A woman of peace and serenity, that's what you are. A beautiful dove that has come to tell Noah that the flood is coming to an end. Thank you for being you Summer and allowing me to be me.

I Like You.

Dear Summer

Dear Summer,

I had a beautiful time last night and today. I've been waiting for that moment for a long time. I am so happy today that I could sing Frankie Beverly and Maze all day. Me personally I have something to smile and be happy about but I can't let no one know. Then I wonder how long will this feeling last. I wonder if it will ever end. Being the situation that it is I know I have the most to lose however, I am still willing to go on. Sometimes I just say this, "I am fortune's fool", because that is how I feel sometimes. Seasons change, they come and go just like people, but what if I don't want you to end Summer? My third eye is open and I contemplate the "If's", yet I still choose to ignore what I see because I have faith and hope. I have never been this happy and because of you Summer other people have seen it too. I smile when you're around and when you talk to me, I share myself with you and feel normal around you. Passionate love making we make with our minds is beyond words. It like a beautiful jazz song that only we could hear and understand. But then I listen to the song from Swing Out Sister, When "The Laughter Is Over", and wonder will it ever be over truly? Will you just be a memory and no longer a reality? Was everything we had a lie or was truly genuine? I don't think of it much, because I don't want to think of it. I would rather have you in my arms looking at a sunset over a beach as if we where looking at our future. There is so much I want to do now and really get it done, because you inspire me to do so. How I want to lay in your lap and have you kiss me and tell me everything is gonna be alright. I'm listening to music wishing I could have u to slow dance with. You are something else Summer. I'm glad to have met you. I hope one day you will find me. Hope to see you soon. I wish upon you nothing but blessings... My sweet, loving and dear Summer...

Black Women : Pride Comes Before Destruction

The sister is speaking some truth. Listen and hear what she is saying, because there are still good black women out there calling out to the others that have lost their way.

Commentary: Lets End Disposable Marriage

I had to post this. This is where America is heading if we do not protect and uphold marriage and fatherhood. It's is basically suicidal and all you will have is a country in chaos.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/07/02/sears.family.divorce/index.html?eref=rss_topstories

By Leah Ward Sears
Special to CNN

Editor's note: Leah Ward Sears stepped down this week as Chief Justice of the Georgia Supreme Court. In 1992, she became the first woman -- and youngest person -- appointed to Georgia's highest court.

ATLANTA, Georgia (CNN) -- After Tommy's sudden death, we found among my brother's personal effects a questionnaire he had completed in 2005 for a church class.

The very first question was a fill-in-the-blank that went like this: "At the end of my life, I'd love to be able to look back and know I'd done something about ....."

"Fathers," Tommy wrote.

When asked to identify something that angered him that could be changed, Tommy wrote, "Re-establishment of equity and balance and sanity within the American family."

My brother was born to be a father, and he grew into a good and loving one. Tommy was tall and handsome, smart, witty and fun. A graduate of the Naval Academy and a Stanford-educated lawyer, he married and fathered a little girl and boy who were the center of his life.

Tommy felt that one of the worst problems in our country today was family breakdown and fatherlessness. He railed against intentional unwed childbearing and the ease with which divorce was possible. He didn't like that we have become a society that values the rights of adults to do their own thing over our responsibility to protect our children.

As a judge I have long held a front row seat to the wreckage left behind by our culture of disposable marriage and casual divorce that my brother so despised.

No-fault divorce was a response to a very real problem. The social and legal landscape that preceded it largely prevented casual divorce, but it often trapped people in abusive marriages. It also turned divorces into even uglier affairs than they are today, forcing people to expose in court damaging information about their children's other parent. That system was intolerable, and we should never go back to that.

But no-fault divorce's broad acceptance as an unquestioned social good helped usher in an era that fundamentally altered the seriousness with which marriage is viewed. It effectively ended marriage as a legal contract since either party can terminate it, with or without cause. This leaves many people struggling to remake their lives after painful divorces that they do not want. It also left many parents cut off from, or sidelined in, the lives of the children they love.

When Tommy divorced, as in so many cases, a bitter struggle over resources and the children ensued. My brother came to believe that the legal system turned him into a mere visitor of his children.

Tommy eventually accepted a job as a lawyer for the State Department and went to Iraq (and later to Dubai) in order to make the money needed to support his children. Being in a war zone, under terrible conditions without the children he loved, was unbearable to him.

On November 5, 2007, my phone rang before daybreak. A U.S. Foreign Service officer was on the other line. Was I the sister of William Thomas Sears?

I knew before I was told what had happened. Tommy had died. But the cause took my breath away: My brother had taken his own life.

I know I'll never understand fully all that factored into his decision to kill himself. No doubt Tommy was wrestling with more demons than he had ever admitted to me or knew himself. But as a divorcee myself and, for a number of years, a single parent, I know the immense pain of divorce and its aftermath. The limitations the law placed on Tommy's right to raise his own children after his divorce magnified my brother's pain and was, I believe, more than he could live with.

Tommy was only 53 when he committed suicide. That was more than a year ago, and I am still learning to live without him and live with the fact that this man I looked up to all my life chose to end his own life.

Tommy's loss has catapulted me even farther down a path I was already on. This may sound like heresy, but I believe the United States and a host of Western democracies are engaged in an unintended campaign to diminish the importance of marriage and fatherhood. By refusing to do everything we can to stem the rising rate of divorce and unwed childbearing, our country often isolates fathers (and sometimes mothers) from their children and their families.

Of course, there are occasions when divorce is necessary. And not everyone should marry. But it has become too easy for people to walk away from their families and commitments without a real regard for the gravity of their decision and the consequences for other people, particularly children.

Removing no-fault divorce as a legal option may not be the right way to move forward, and the solutions we need may not be entirely legal in nature. But answers must be found. The coupling and uncoupling we've become accustomed to undermines our democracy, destroys our families and devastates the lives of our children, who are not as resilient as we may wish to think. The one-parent norm, which is necessary and successful in many cases, nevertheless often creates a host of other problems, from poverty to crime, teen pregnancy and drug abuse.

The loss of my brother has changed my life, as these losses so often do to people. This summer, after 26 years, I'm hanging up my robe as a judge to return to private practice.

I will spend some of my time teaching a course in family law at the University of Georgia Law School. And I have accepted a fellowship at the Institute of American Values in New York -- a private, nonprofit, nonpartisan organization that contributes intellectually to strengthening families and civil society in the United States and the world.

At my request, the fellowship is named after my brother. As the William Thomas Sears Distinguished Fellow in Family Law, perhaps now I can truly do "something about fathers" -- a mission I'm on for Tommy and a critical calling for all of us.