Now me personally I like an hour glass shape. However my confidence made me afraid to seek out my preference. Fellas seek out what u want in life, if you want the chick that look like Kim Kardashian but with a spirit and Mind like India Arie then go for it. The only one thing stopping you is you. If you don't like out of shape women then don't mess with em. Go for what u want and don't try to settle for anything less.